đ Editorâs Note (2025 Update): This post has been updated with fresh advice based on current dating behavior and trends in the Malaysian sugar scene. Always date with mutual respect and clear expectations.
While monogamy is still the dominant cultural form, it is not for everyone and polygamy isnât going to ruin the world! For some Sugar Daddies, having a few Sugar Babies at one time is the epitome of Sugar Success. This doesnât make you a womanizer or a bad man. You can have multiple arrangements concurrently and still be a gentleman. However, this choice doesnât come without responsibilities. Its best you learn how to manage your Sugar Babies before you lose any of them!
Be Crystal Clear and Confident
One way to keep everyone happy is honestly. Be honest about yourself and be honest to the women youâre going to date about what you want. Do not ever hide that you are seeing other women. If youâre not going to date her exclusively, be completely clear about your intentions. She needs to know that you are not into a monogamous relationship. Let her know how the arrangement is going to be like and how much time youâre going to spend with her. Being open and honest will save you from drama down the road.
Keep A Planner
If you want to have multiple Sugar Babies, you need to be an expert in time management. Donât wind up in that troubled situation where you promised to meet more than one Sugar Baby on the same day. A good rule of thumb is to always have a mental calendar and meticulously keep those dates separated. Take out your spreadsheet and plan your schedule so that you can give each woman a little bit of your time.
Forgive Her Trespasses
Women are still women. As time goes on, it is fairly common that feelings of jealousy and insecurity will start to. You need to assess if she is emotionally handling the âopennessâ well. You have to acknowledge her feelings and deal with the fact that sheâs feeling a certain way. Do your best to comfort her and make her feel special.
Be A Gentleman
Dating a few women at once doesnât make you a douchebag, but mistreating them absolutely does. Having options isnât an excuse to be a jerk and these women do not owe you anything. Any man can have a few girlfriends but it takes a real man to treat a woman right. Give her the attention that she wants, pamper her as much as you can, be saccharine sweet. If you put in just a little effort into learning how to treat her right, she will like you way too much to call things off, even if she wants exclusivity.
FAQ
Q1. Is it common to have multiple sugar babies at once?
A1. Yes, some experienced sugar daddies do, especially if theyâre upfront and clear with everyone involved.
Q2. Do sugar babies mind if you date others?
A2. Many are okay with it – as long as there’s honesty and respect. Set expectations early.
Q3. How do you avoid jealousy between sugar babies?
A3. Keep communication clear. Don’t compare them or play favorites openly. Respect their time and effort.
Q4. How do you schedule dates with more than one sugar baby?
A4. Use a private calendar, avoid overlaps, and always confirm plans. Prioritize consistency and fairness.
Q5. Whatâs the biggest mistake sugar daddies make when juggling multiple babies?
A5. Lying or being careless with time. It breaks trust fast. Transparency is key.
If I was a woman I’d be so pissed for having to share the same man but too bad, I’m a man afterall. You either take it or leave it! Hahaha!?
Why can’t women just get a job and support yourself?
err… maybe cuz some of us are still in college?
If SBs worked and got paid enough there would not be any sugarbowl.
Because getting job and supporting oneself is not fun? lol
I will date as many girls as I wish and I do not need anybody’s approval, fuck that, I’m the boss
get over yourself
Do you guys have escorts??
Sugar magic happens when you juggle multiple babies. Ask me how.
NO THANKS
how?! how?!! how?!
Sugar magic happens when youâre able to neutralize female sabotage with a firm NO because you have more than one woman in rotation.
hahahahah ya is really happening i need to date as many as i can
be careful of hiv