You don’t have to wait until there’s a special occasion to send over a long distance relationship gift—random surprises can never go wrong!
It’s already hard as it is to maintain a long distance relationship, so surprising your partner with gifts—on special occasions or just because—can really help keep the love alive.
Ahead, we’ve rounded up some of the best long distance relationship gifts for couples in Malaysia. Whether you’re feeling sad, lonely (or horny 😉), you’ll find a suitable idea among these long distance relationship gift ideas in Malaysia:
Best Long Distance Relationship Gifts For Her
1. Soft toys

Soft toys: girls love ’em, and we’re pretty sure your lovely sayang loves them too.
But don’t be basic and get her just any teddy bear 🤮
Why not try a muscular man arm pillow? No more whining about missing your bear hugs.
Or maybe she’s missing ahem, something else? Get her a penis soft toy so she has something cheeky to snuggle (or grind on 😏).
2. Flowers
Think flowers are too cliché? Think again, bro.
Every girl loves getting flowers—even more so when you’re far apart. It’s a classic way to say “I still care.”
Florists like BloomThis, Happy Bunch, or FlowerChimp offer same-day delivery within Malaysia and even international options. No excuses!
3. Your daily cologne

You know what she secretly loves? That lingering smell of your cologne.
So if she could smell you 24/7, she definitely would. This makes your cologne one of the best long distance relationship gifts—she’ll spray it on everything she owns.
4. Oil diffuser

When you’re together, she de-stresses with you. But when you’re apart? Not the same 😔
Get her a USB-powered mini diffuser—you can find tons on Shopee Malaysia or Lazada. Practical, calming, and she’ll be thinking of you every time it’s on.
5. Lingerie

Spicing things up from afar? One word: lingerie.
Not your average undies, please. Go for something that’ll boost her confidence and make your video sessions extra steamy.
Check out local sites like IXEN Boutique, Sorella Malaysia, or Hermo for lots of seductive picks.
6. Scented candles
Bored of the same virtual routine?
Take the romance up a notch by sending over a scented candle. Get one with scents she loves or something symbolic like Malaysian Orchid or Tropical Rainforest.
7. A personalized photo frame

Long distance is tough—you might even forget what your partner looks like 😶
So give her a cute photo frame with a favorite pic of you two and engrave a sweet message. She’ll love having it by her bedside.
8. A customized photo book

Fill a photo book with cute, funny, romantic memories—and maybe some cheeky pics too 😘
Websites like Photobook Malaysia let you design your own and get it delivered anywhere. Perfect to show her you’re still putting in the effort.
9. Personalized necklace or bracelet

Worried about those flirty guys around her?
Get her a necklace or bracelet with your initials or a meaningful quote. That way, she’s always wearing a piece of “you.”
Try Lovita Malaysia, Lazada, or ZCOVA for customizable jewellery.
10. Sephora gift card
If she’s into makeup or skincare, this one’s a no-brainer.
You can easily send over a Sephora Malaysia e-gift card so she can pick what she wants. You’re not physically with her at the mall, but you can still spoil her.
Best Long Distance Relationship Gifts For Him
1. Food care packages
Malaysian snacks? A total win. He’s definitely missing things like Mamee, Super Ring, Teh Tarik 3-in-1, or sambal belacan.
Pack his favourites in a cute care box and send it via Lalamove, Ninjavan, or J&T Express. Food = love!
2. A special video

No, not that video (or maybe yes 👀). We’re talking about a sweet video compilation of things you love about him.
It’s free, thoughtful, and perfect for repeating over and over again without connection lag.
3. Our Moments Couples Edition card game

Your calls getting boring?
Spice things up with the Our Moments card game—100 relationship questions that’ll get you both talking, laughing, and maybe crying a little (in a good way).
Available on Shopee Malaysia and Lazada.
4. Matching mugs

Start his day right with a matching couple mug set.
Even when you’re apart, he’ll feel close to you while sipping on his Milo or kopi o.
5. Remote-controlled vibrator

If you’re both freaky and proud, a remote-controlled vibrator like LOVENSE Ferri lets him control your pleasure—even from thousands of kilometers away.
Connect via Bluetooth or WiFi, and let him take the lead in your next steamy session.
6. Open-when letters

Old school, but powerful.
Write a bunch of letters titled “Open When You Miss Me,” “Open When You’re Horny,” “Open When You Need A Laugh,” etc. and send them in a bundle.
Each letter will feel like a warm hug from you 💌
7. Star map fine prints

You’re both under the same stars—even if you’re not side by side.
Capture the sky on your anniversary, first kiss, or first date with a custom star map print. He’ll love the meaning behind it.
Sites like OMOCustom.com and Canvas by Yuna offer them in Malaysia.
8. Microwave-safe ramen bowl

Malaysians and Maggi = inseparable 😍
Send him a cute, microwave-safe bowl that’s practical and shows you care—even when he’s slurping instant noodles alone.
9. Long distance friendship lamp
These cute WiFi-connected lamps light up when you or your partner touches them—like a secret code.
A small, magical way to say “I miss you.”
10. Long distance touch bracelet set

Feeling distant? With these touch bracelets, he’ll feel a gentle buzz whenever you touch yours—real-time reminders that you’re thinking of him.
Available on Uncommon Goods or local sellers on Shopee/Lazada.
With this wholesome list of long distance relationship gift ideas in Malaysia, you’ll have no problem keeping the sparks alive—no matter the miles.
Long distance isn’t easy, but with a little creativity (and cheekiness), your connection can grow stronger than ever 💘
FAQ
1. What is a good gift for a long distance relationship in 2025?
Smart gadgets, personalized gifts, and surprise delivery boxes are trending in Malaysia now.
2. Are there any Malaysian online stores for LDR gifts?
Yes! Platforms like GrabGifts, Shopee, and local flower delivery services offer quick LDR options.
3. How can I send a surprise gift to my LDR partner?
Use local apps that support same-day delivery and include gift wrap or handwritten notes.
4. What are some romantic LDR gift ideas under RM100?
Custom keychains, printed couple shirts, Spotify plaques, and virtual experience vouchers.
5. Do long distance gifts really help in a relationship?
Absolutely, small, consistent surprises keep the connection alive and make memories.

